友谊万岁

又一个周末过去了。大家别来无恙吧。今天想写个关于“磨擦”的故事。

上次写到人与人相处是个非常深的学问，一堂就算我们上一辈子也学不完的课。它实在是太变化多端，太多姿多彩了。我们必须用心来感应、来回应、来接受、来谅解和付出。不容易，真的不容易，有时确实好想哭，大大声声的哭，感忐为什么某人就是不明白我的心呢？然后暗底里希望大哭一场后，彩虹会出现。当然相反的也有开心、温馨和感激的时候。

最近就发生了点儿事，让我又上了一堂小小的课。上帝把不一样，不同性格的人处在一起，肯定有他的理由。或许我们现在不知道那理由是什么，但我们却能肯定的说，这个安排是有着我们学习的价值。

相信大家曾经看过这篇语录吧 –
有些朋友在你生命中经过
有些朋友在你生命中停留
有些朋友在你生命中留下脚印
希望我是其中一个在你生命中留下脚印，陪你渡过每天的快乐与悲伤
友谊万岁！

其实俩个不同性格的人聚在一起，磨擦肯定会有，所以忍让和体谅是一定不可获缺的。我感谢上帝让我有机会上这堂课，学习如何关心别人，如何站在别人的立场去看和处理事情，如何用心去面对自己犯下的错，还有如何用心去道歉。也多亏了他“插手”, 这件事才有个好的结局。

同时，我也想在此对我这位朋友盛重的说声“对不起”，谢谢你接受了我的道歉。

友谊万岁！

和讨厌的人一起工作。。。。是要学习的

不要为了一个你讨厌的人，而离开许多你喜欢的人。快乐的笑容带给你一生的幸福。

讨厌。。。就不要理他呀。。。别放在心里就好了呀。。。和讨厌的人一起工作是要学习的。

说的也是, 人在外工作, 每天要见好多人, 和好多人说话, 一定会有讨厌的人存在

为自己离开或留下, 不要为了别人. 不要为一个讨厌的人，而离开许多你喜欢的人

我们来听个小故事，一个老师和学生的故事。

做作业分组，十二个人一组，他来要求老师说他要换组。为什么？

因为他很讨厌其中的一个人，老师就让他换了。

不过问了他说 : 其他的组员你也都讨厌吗？

学生 : 不会啊，都满喜欢的。

老师 : 那这个人，在你生命中重不重要？

那个学生答 : 重要个鬼啦！讨厌死他了！

但是，十个好朋友都留不住你，你却为了他一个人离开。你说这个人，重不重要？

如果在命里的重量没那么重的话，又为什么要这么在乎他呢？

于其为一个不重人离开，还不如为了十个喜欢你，你也喜欢的朋友留下。

每个人都很荒眇的认为 “全世界的每个人都应该喜欢我”

但是如同自己有讨厌的人跟喜欢的人一样，自己也会被人讨厌和被人喜欢。

所以和讨厌的人一起工作。。。。是要学习的。

谢谢您

路遥知马力，日久见人心。简单的十个字，深藏着无限的义意。 人与人的关系有时真的很微妙。就好比前阵子，我们还是知心得好朋友，才没几天时间，我们却突然变成好像不太认识对方了。到底发生了什么事？是误会吗？没人知道，也似乎没人问。慢慢的，感情变淡了，我们疏远了，友情也仿佛消失了。 回想起来，还真有点儿可惜。为什么当时没开口问？为什么当时没有澄清到底有何问题？只因没勇气吗？不想面对吗？用“忙”来逃避吗？还是另有些不想被人知的理由？我想，这种种的问题也只有当事人才有权回答吧。 觉的我是庆幸的，过了近乎五年时间，我们又联络上对方，还约了一起吃饭。还记的那天我不知反反复复检查了我的衣服几遍，穿什么鞋，配什么包包等，终于战战惊惊的赴约去了。 其实我是有点儿生气，气当时为什么他没解释就离开了？难道我做错了什么吗？如果是这样，为何当时不直接了当面对面的说出来呢？要是这样，我们不就不用分开了吗？ 我们终于见面了。外表上，他似乎也没变多少，谈吐却比当年所认识的他成熟了，必经在社会大学中打滚了五年，我们彼此都成长了吧。那天，我们聊了很多，时间仿佛倒回了五年前。他也终于说出当年他离开的理由。虽然理由现在听起来有点儿莫名奇妙，我其实也不太记的当时的事了。但之少他说了，心结打开了，我明白了，也接受了他的理由。 我们又变成了好朋友，无所不谈的好朋友。曾经失去所以更懂得真惜。谢谢您，上帝，让我们两儿，虽然经历了五年没有彼此岁月的洗礼，再一次有机会重逢，再一次重新认识对方，再一次成为最要好的朋友。谢谢您。只有您能让这一切有个最完美的结局。

Nightmare..

Had a bad dream this morning, woke up with a huge jerk, soaked in cold sweat, and praying loudly in tongues. Must been an awful fright to my mum and sister who were both getting ready to go off to work… hahahaa. The dream was so real and I was so scared that I did not dare to fall asleep after I woke up. I didn’t want to continue the dream. In the end I went to bathe at 6.30am this morning and came to office really early today (7.30am). Hahaa… not bad leh, no one in the office (we officially start work at 8.30am), and so I had the “freedom” to check my mails, clear a bit of my own stuffs before officially starting work.

Okie.. about my dream or rather nightmare…

I dreamt that I was face to face with a family, mother with 3 children, one around age 10 years old, the other 2 were around 3 and 1 year old… all 3 of them very cute and lovable and I enjoyed playing with them. (noticed that my dream didn’t cover the daddy in the family though.. funny isn’t it ?) The mummy is the typical housewife at home. Then suddenly one day as I visit this family, I noticed something a little bit weird. The 2 younger children who would usually be running around in the house were actually sound asleep. Then I noticed that the oldest daughter and the mummy had a funny look on their faces, and their faces seemed a little more “tanned” (dun ask me why its “tanned” cos I also dunno.. haha) than usual. Suddenly “something” (yeah, its “something”.. I also dunno what, but obviously scary, if not, I won’t be running like crazy !!) chased me… and my instinct was to run.. and boy did I run… apparently this family stay in a high-rise building and I had to run many many many winding staircases (that seem to have no end) till I reach the void deck of that block.

Funny thing is that there is actually a fun-fair or pasar-malam kind of sale going on at the void deck of that block and there was actually a policeman booth ! (since when do void decks pasar-malams have a policeman booth ??? hahaah.. ok, ok, I know I have illogical dreams, but since when were dreams logical ?). Anyway, I managed to catch my breathe and then convinced 1 policeman, and 1 policewoman to follow me up to that particular unit. Everything seemed normal in the unit, I was welcomed into the house by the mother (as if nothing happened just before), the mother told me that the oldest daughter was inside the room playing, so I signaled to the 2 police to follow me. We proceeded cautiously while the mother went to the kitchen to continue her house chores.

The oldest daughter was playing inside the room while the 2 younger children were still sleeping on a mattress in the same room. It was exactly the same as what I had seen just a while ago. Was I dreaming earlier ? Was I hallucinating ? Frankly speaking, I wasn’t really sure at this point of time. The 2 police talked to the oldest daughter for a while and everything seemed normal. Suddenly the daughter went into fits, writhing as if someone was strangling her and she had that “tanned look again. Her face was alternating between pain and tears and another with a devilish smile. I know the poor kid must be sobbing terribly inside cos of great fear. I screamed ! The 2 police were so taken aback by what happened that they immediately jumped and backed off. Somehow deep inside I knew what was happening… so I stretched my hand towards the girl and started praying loudly in tongues… I was scared too… but I know what I have to do… and what my Daddy in heaven can do for this family. Then I WOKE UP….

Conclusion : One stupid dream… no logic, seems vaguely similar to some horror shows I have watched before long long long ago… hahaha…

Daddy, I thank you that I will have blessed rest every night for the rest of my life. No more such nightmares Daddy. Thank you.

Amen.

Updates ..

It’s been a long while since I last blog.. hahaha.. been lazy lar… but really nothing much to update for the moment. Driving test coming.. a little anxious.. went circuit for the first time last Friday morning. Didn’t feel very “squashed / crammed” inside the circuit. Perhaps, there wasn’t that many cars in there that particular morning. Didn’t like the slope obstacle. Kind of easy to slip backward. Had really get the “feel” of the 1.5 release on my clutch while maintaining 2.5 at the accelerator portion. The rest such as the S-course, crank course, parallel and directional change parking were pretty ok. Thank God. Was rather relieved to be back on the main road after that one hour of circuit driving. Nonetheless, my trust is in Daddy God for my driving. Daddy knows best what I am weak at and need to work on. He knows my dreams. Daddy…. U know. :-) Finally “graduated” from cam4 to cam2 in church. Was really anxious the first time I was on cam2 on my own as I was not confident at all. Thank God for a super patient and understanding video director that day plus lots of encouragements from my friends... though almost thru'out the whole service I was still shivering (not from cold, I guess its more from anxiousness and fear), thank God all went well for my “maiden” cam2 experience.. hahaha.. really praise God. Now I really need to brush up on the finer details such as my zooming in and out (according to the tempo of the worship songs), focus (clock and anti-clock) and being creative in giving new different shots/angles. Tiring (cos have to really concentrate) but challenging ! Hallelujah ! In the midst of looking for a new job. Yes, a change of job. Come to think of it, I’ve been with my present company for close to 5 years now. Great colleagues, and good environment to work in. But work wi